On Wisdom

59: Shaping Reality and Relationships: The Science of Connection and Expectation (with David Robson)

September 23rd, 2024  |  49 mins 40 secs

amae, david robson, emotions, expectation effect, happiness, loneliness, meaning, philosophy, psychology, purpose, reasoning, social connection, social science, the beautiful mess effect, the fast-friendship procedure, the liking gap, the nocebo effect, the novelty penalty, the placebo effect, well being, wisdom

Can our expectations about ourselves and others reshape our lives? Science writer David Robson returns to explore how our expectations don’t just change personal outcomes—they influence how we connect with others. Drawing from his books The Laws of Connection and The Expectation Effect, David reveals the hidden psychology behind social interactions and how our misconceptions about what others think can hold us back. Igor delves into how expectations can foster or hinder meaningful relationships, David explains how small mindset shifts can help overcome social anxiety, and Charles reflects on why connecting with strangers can be easier (and more rewarding) than we think. Welcome to Episode 59.